He was born one mornin' it was cold and it was snowin' And from the start he never had a chance And though the doctors said he couldn't live his mama had some faith to give And they brought him to her and his mama named him Vance He was sick a long time then I used to sit by him I'd rub his head he would squeeze my hand But he never cried he'd grit his teeth and smile at me cause he couldn't speak And that's when I began to respect the little man And I think Vance was three right about then He started school and one day he came home and at the doorway I could tell the little man didn't want to come inside He'd met a girl but her boyfriend Smitty Had caught him walkin' home with her and nearly killed Vance But then Vance never cried and the only thing that Smitty hurt was pride And he said papa do you become a man when you're twenty one And I said age doesn't make a man a man my son He looked at me so puzzled with eyes so young and kind And I think Vance was seven about that time [ strings ] I guess they say that first love is the very best At least it was with Vance cause he'd scratched Becky on his desk But Becky went with Smitty and Vance was very small And he used to dream what it'd be like to be tall And then a few years later Vance came in one day And told me and his mama that he had to go away To be fitted for a uniform and though his mama shed a tear He kissed her and said he'd see us in two years And he looked at me and said papa I'm gonna be a man Well two years to the day Vance came walkin' in the driveway And I didn't recognize him from his size till he got near He came in and he hugged his mama And said hey papa little man wanna go with me somewhere and grab a beer So we're sittin' at this table when this fella at the bar started buggin' Vance Callin' him soldier but Vance kept his cool And he said papa that guy is Smitty and he's to be pitied now Cause that's the same guy that used to bully me in school Then Smitty said the wrong thing when he brought up Becky's name And Vance finally stood and said boy what did you say And it did my heart so much good when Vance hit ole Smitty And it took two of Smitty's friends to carry him away Well Vance left the very next mornin' and it was cold and it was snowin' And from the first life hadn't been much fun But he had finally made a stand and he'd become a self made man And incidentally he had just turned twenty one